Meet someone actually worth your time.
Compatibility-first matches and local events where you actually meet — instead of a feed designed to keep you on your phone.
NYC · Chicago · Miami · Houston · SF · LA
- Free for founding members
- Block & report from day one
- No pay-to-play matches
Founding members lock in every premium feature, free, forever.
Real compatibility, seven dimensions.
Values · Life vision · Family · Money · Lifestyle · Emotional · Growth
Built around women's safety
Dating should never feel unsafe. Every feature below is live today — and our safety roadmap is guided by the women who use Nonna. Inclusive for everyone, designed so women stay in control.
Talk before you share your number
Send in-app voice notes — hear someone's voice and get comfortable without ever giving out your phone number.
Selfie verification
Members can verify with a live selfie and earn a badge, so you know a real person is behind the profile.
One-tap block & report
Block or report from any profile or chat. Blocking is instant and mutual — they can't see you or contact you again.
Only matches can message you
No unsolicited DMs. You're only contacted by people you've matched with, and harassment-by-volume is rate-limited automatically.
Emergency contact
Add a trusted contact for real-world date safety — kept private and fully under your control.
Safety Center
Plain-English guidance for chatting, first dates, and spotting scams — written for how women actually date.
A woman with feedback on safety? We build with you — write to hello@nonnapicks.com.
How Nonna works
Three steps from sign-up to your first real conversation.
Take the compatibility quiz
Three short sections across values, lifestyle, and personality. Stop after Part 1 — your matches already work.
See who you actually match with
Every profile shows a real compatibility score across seven dimensions, so you know why before you say hello.
Chat in-app or meet in person
Message your matches privately, or come to a local dinner, walk, or meetup where they show up too.
Events live in NYC today — rolling out city by city.
Compatibility you can actually see
Every profile shows the real score across all seven dimensions — so you know why before you say hello.
Overall fit at a glance
A compatibility score, match type, and a radar view across every dimension.
Every dimension, spelled out
A real percentage per dimension — plus the specific differences worth a conversation early.
Depth no other app shows
A Green Flag score for healthy patterns, and a Relationship Readiness read on where they are.
Meet at a real event
Local dinners, walks, and meetups so the first conversation isn't through a screen.
Play Match Hunt at every Nonna event
Nonna reveals your top match in the room one clue at a time. Find them before anyone else does — only at Nonna events.
Events live in NYC today — rolling out city by city.
Use Nonna like an app
Add it to your home screen — full-screen, one tap, no App Store.
Native iOS & Android apps coming soon.
Ready to meet your people?
Joining, matching, and messaging are free. Start today.
Create your free accountAre you two actually compatible?
Take a 2-minute quiz, send the link to a crush, a match, or a friend — and you'll both see your real compatibility score. It's how Nonna matches, minus the guesswork.
Check your compatibility →Not in your city yet?
Nonna is live in NYC, Chicago, Miami, Houston, SF, and LA. Drop your email and you'll be first to know the moment we open near you.